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Meeting Someone on the Camino de Santiago

Why the pilgrimage remains one of Spain's best places to fall in love.

By The Best Dating Spain Editors··7 min read

Thirty days on foot with strangers, sharing meals, sharing blisters, sharing conversation you would never have with someone in a bar — the Camino de Santiago is, mathematically, one of the most efficient compression algorithms for intimacy that Europe has ever invented. Countless couples meet on the Francés route between Sarria and Santiago every single summer, and the ones who last usually walked the last hundred kilometres together completely by accident.

The rhythm of the Camino works because it removes almost every filter that dating apps introduce. You cannot swipe. You cannot ghost easily — the person you snubbed at breakfast will be at your albergue that night. You share physical exhaustion, cheap wine and simple pilgrim meals with the same handful of people for days on end, and by the third evening you either enjoy their company or you don't.

Practical advice for anyone hoping to meet someone on the Camino: walk your own pace, share the pilgrim menu of the evening rather than eating alone, keep your phone in your pocket, and pick the Francés route if you're new — it is by far the most social. The Portuguese, Primitivo and Norte routes are more solitary and often more scenic, but they are not where you will meet twenty new people a week.

One warning: Camino relationships are famously intense, and many of them do not survive the return to normal life. Enjoy them for what they are, and see who is still calling you three months after Santiago before you make any big decisions.

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Written by the Best Dating Spain editorial team and reviewed before publication by a relationship coach based in Madrid. We test every app ourselves and never accept sponsored placements.

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